The boyfriend lived with a girl from the Internet and found out that she was uncomfortable with him
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A US Reddit user with the nickname Bedbugmakesad shared the story of how, after meeting his girlfriend, whom he met on the Internet, he learned the unpleasant truth about their relationship. The partner admitted to the guy that she was uncomfortable living and communicating with him. According to the author of the publication, this fact took him by surprise.
Bedbugmakesad revealed that his girlfriend lives in another country. They met on a dating app and became friends, and a few years later they struck up an affair. Young people regularly wrote messages to each other and called each other via video communication. “Of course, we had our disagreements, but it seemed to me that this was normal. She knew that I had difficulties with live communication, ”added the author of the publication.
According to Bedbugmakesad, the partner was planning to move in with him. Before that, the couple decided to see each other for the first time and live together for two months to try out the experience of living together. “I spent 10 days in quarantine at the hotel and spent three thousand dollars on the flight to her (about 220 thousand rubles – approx.“ Lenta.ru ” ),” the boyfriend shared.
It seemed to the narrator that he and his beloved were having a good time together. At the same time, the user noted that once they had a problem during sex. A week after his arrival, his partner told Bedbugmakesad that she was uncomfortable with him. “She told me it’s not like that. The sex was bad. I don't communicate enough with her, ”the guy complained.
According to him, the beloved said that if the situation did not improve, she would like the young man to look for another place to stay or go home. “I’m completely lost, I don’t understand how this person could tell me that he loves me and wants to marry me, and now she cannot live with me for two months,” said Bedbugmakesad. The author of the publication called the fact that he is not as successful as the girl and the fact that he has difficulties in verbal communication as a possible reason for the failure in the relationship.
In the comments, many users considered it logical that the couple had difficulties in real communication after the novel on the Internet. They also gave their recommendations to the user. “I think it's time for you to pack and leave. It's over, and the fact that you cling to it doesn't make the situation any better, ”wrote one commentator. At the same time, some advised the hero of the story to talk to the girl about his problems with self-esteem and feelings.
