After honoring the memory of a loved one, the woman could not come to terms with the chosen name.
A woman who gave birth to a daughter several months ago gave her the name of her deceased mother. However, now she is facing difficulties using this name.
She spoke about this on Reddit
It turned out that she had not yet come to terms with the loss of her mother, and for her, her daughter's name is associated with her late mother. Therefore, the woman cannot get used to the new name and cannot name the children the way she planned. She is looking for advice on Reddit on how to survive this difficult period.
The author recalls that even during her lifetime, her mother did not really like her name, but she herself always admired it and promised that if she had a daughter, she would definitely name her after her mother.
After she found out that she was expecting a girl, she decided without a doubt that it would be so. However, when her daughter was almost two months old, the woman realized that she couldn't get attached to the name because it reminded her of the loss of her mother.
In response, many on Reddit expressed condolences and shared their own advice. Some suggested using other name variations or nicknames until you're ready to call your child by his or her real name, while others suggested just letting the baby get used to the name gradually.
Several comments also mentioned how they themselves changed or added middle names due to difficult emotions associated with the memory of deceased relatives.
Recall that a woman from China who gave birth to nine children strives to have a child of each of the 12 Chinese zodiac signs, citing a desire “not to waste her husband's good genes.”
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